Where your talents and the needs of the world cross; there lies your vocation.
They always say time changes things, but you actually have to change them yourself.
My favourite whitney houston song this song has always meant a lot to me not as famous as her other hits but I love it still.
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Eros
a passionate physical and emotional love based on aesthetic enjoyment; stereotype of romantic loveLudus
a love that is played as a game or sport; conquest; may have multiple partners at onceStorge
an affectionate love that slowly develops from friendship, based…
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Here is my last piece from the view of females on this blog I got helped by my friend Alia unlike the two previous she is in a relationship this bit she wrote really opened my eyes to what girls think when they are dealing with someone enjoy :)
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I suppose in my case my other and I are the same but completely different. The same being in the fact that we work in the same industry, like the same kind of films, music, books. But even then with all things that we have in common, we still have different tastes. We’re both quirky and weird people, and our relationship’s based on the long history and friendship we’ve built over the years In my case, it took a massive argument between him and I, to realise that there were some things I personally needed to change about myself; partially it was because of him, but partially it was because I wanted to better myself. I realised that I was being too clingy and needy and just glad that we distanced ourselves over that period - hard as it was But funnily enough - from my perspective - he now needs to better himself for the sake of our relationship and for his self confidence. He’s an insecure person and it puts a strain on our relationship. Unfortunately his insecurities and lack of communication got to the better of him and we’re now in another non talking stage -__- but, I’m giving him time and having faith and patience. A lot of people were judging us because it’s us - they think we’re too different, but deep down we’re the same kind of people Those changes are huge because you had to take a super hard look at yourself and just look at where you went wrong. I think I became too clingy and needy, when it wasn’t the person that my other half wanted after all those years. He wanted me for me when we first met. It wasn’t a matter of going back to how I was when I was 16 when I first met him; it was just the me he liked. So now going back to that is a major change for me, and now it’s just a matter of time before he mans up -__- I guess to sum up my super long post, depending on how serious the relationship is, in my case, it takes a couple of arguments and talks to realise what kind of person you are. We’re not perfect, but major/minor changes (depending on circumstances) will help you become a better person. At times change is good”
A Sui and Alia collaboration.
Here’s the second part in my series of blogs from the view of females about relationships and how they have handled them and how they want to be treated today is from the wonderful nainai here she talks about trust…..
“You know when your really deeply into someone and you truly care about them, you will do about just about anything to make them happy and to please them. Ignoring their past, their faults and trusting every word they say to you. After all that effort eventually you find out its all lies, people lie all the time and some guys are really good at it to the point where you can’t tell who’s gonna hurt you and who truely cares about you. All I know is from now on I am using my head, trusting my eyes and forgetting the words he says, because when he’s actions are the opposite of all he has said actions truely speak louder than words. Despite all of these past failures I am not going to judge my next relationship based on the previous failed one’s but I’ll just be a little bit smarter and if the next guy isn’t good enough he gotta go cos I deserve better.”
A Sui and Nainai collaboration
After posing my questions about whether people wud date the gender opposite themselves it opened a debate on how we treat each other as many females felt despite giving their all in relationships they didn’t receive the same respect so I asked a few of my female friends to give their view on relationships this blog is coming in 3 parts just cos each of them had so much to say and I didn’t want to spoil what they said by deleting to much so they each get their own individual blog the first of which comes from my good friend Roxanne enjoy :)
“My thoughts…I get frustrated because I am forever trying to understand a BOYs mind. Their concept of a relationship is that it’s ok to have that one girl who’s down for you and is nothing but loyal and trustworthy…but they want to still have their “fun” with other girls. I don’t agree with double standards and never will, if the shoe was on the other foot us females would never hear the end of it! I don’t understand why you want to have a girlfriend but have that bit on the side?! If your seeking for something else that’s missing from your relationship..let your girlfriend know! If she can’t fulfil whatever it is, let her go…don’t keep her hanging on, wondering what she’s doing wrong when it’s not her at all. Every time I have had this debate I get the same answer “Just because, I don’t know why I do it…” Clearly some of you watch too much Baby boy! That’s not a VALID answer…By all means if you want to do what your doing with a next girl, go right ahead. But let me let you know and I’m sure I speak on be half of a lot of females when I say I AM NO ONES FOOL and the sooner you realise lies always tend to surface sooner or later, the better. Respect me enough to tell me what foolishness your doing, let me make up my mind as to whether I want to remain with a boy who likes the idea of having his cake and eating it too OR if I want to move on find myself a man who will treat me how I deserve to be treated. Sometimes the person we thought was our knight in shining armour is a eddiat in tin foil lol I treat others how I want to be treated…I don’t put time, effort and emotions into something I’m not serious about. So in a relationship; me being honest, loyal, caring, supportive, faithful etc. I expect the same, I really don’t think that’s asking for much. To those who think that is…you have a lot of growing up to do. It hurts and its upsetting to move on sometimes but when you have and you realise “…Gentlemen do still exist!” It’s a good feeling :)”
A Sui and Fox collaboration
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